Let kids make decisions while providing them with a choice between positive alternatives. Let them choose between a banana and an apple, or which pair of pajamas to wear before bed. The point is to allow them to think for themselves, with guidance. This will consistently set them up for success they can proud of. Decisions are beneficial to one’s character and are said to shape destiny, so we work with kids to instill this ability early on in our program. Remember, repetition is everything. The more decisions they make as children under proper guidance, the more effective their decision making ability will become through adolescence.